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Todays mental-health check-in for the journey

Started by JourneyToMaintenance · · 17 replies · 174 views
#1

The scale wins have been real for me lately, but I noticed my brain still talks to me like I'm the old me, and it catches me off guard some days. I'm trying to give myself credit for how far I've come instead of only seeing what's left. How do you all keep your head in a good place while your body is changing faster than your self-image?

#4

the lag thing is so real. I keep catching my reflection and being surprised, and my first thought is still a put-down even after all this time. Does the brain stuff get easier the longer you're at a weight, or is it just something you learn to ignore?

#5

honestly, the old clothes thing worked for me too, though it was more jarring than reassuring at first. Pulling out a jacket I used to wear open because it wouldn't button and finding it loose kind of short-circuited my brain for a minute

#7

I'm about 26 down and the mirror still lies to me some mornings. Does the old-clothes thing actually land for you, or does your brain just explain it away like mine does

#10

Only 2 lbs for me so far, but I already catch myself thinking like the heavier version. How long did it take before the mental picture started catching up to what the mirror shows?

#11

My head lags behind too, and what catches me is hearing my own voice describe myself to other people. I'll start to say something self-deprecating and realize it doesn't fit the person in the mirror anymore.

#13

I still grab my old jacket out of habit even though it hangs on me now, and the mirror is the last place I trust. What helped was catching myself mid-thought and asking whose voice that actually was.

#15

My head still runs the old script too, and what startled me was catching myself apologizing for taking up space in a doorway. The clothes thing is real though, I keep grabbing the wrong size out of habit

#17

The old-software thing is real. I still catch myself bracing to squeeze past people in a doorway out of habit, even though there's room now. Weird little moments like that are where i notice the gap most

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